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Busting Excuses

"Why you deserve a boudoir session"

When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves or take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just too busy. We are too crazy at work, or we always have to drive someone SOMEWHERE. Sometimes its more important to spend time with our spouse. We also have excuses such as "I want to lose 15 Lb first" or "I just don’t have the money right now!" I wanted to write this to show you that no matter the excuse, you CAN do it.

Let me show you that no matter the excuse your worthy of self love.


"I don’t have enough time for myself"

Its important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally, your not going to be able to take care of everyone else. It's harder said then done and it makes sense. Sometimes I am the WORST at making sure I am giving myself mental health breaks and thats why I think it is so important to share this with you. I make the same excuses as above and every now and then I need someone to look me in the eye and tell me to "SLOW DOWN", give yourself a break, and breathe for moment.

At a boudoir shoot you are able to breathe and love yourself for a few hours. Think of all the energy you will save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others, or stop worrying about what other people will think of how you look. You will see where your beauty really comes from and this lifts such a huge mental weight.

You need to take time for yourself, why not spend it having an amazing time and getting glammed up for once?

"Im not where I want to be weight wise, I don't fit the media's idea of the ideal size"

Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the "Ideal" is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT

I will say this over and over again (and sorry, not sorry if you heard me say this before), but WHY do you have to be a certain size to LOVE Yourself ? WHY do you have to fit a strangers messed up view of the perfect body to LOVE

your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no two women are the same!

I think its amazing to have goals and want to get healthy, but does that mean that you have to hate your body to do those things? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so that you can be proud of where your going.

Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate where you are now, and then have another to celebrate when you lose that 15 lbs to celebrate how far you’ve come.


"I never feel Sexy or Sensual anymore, so a boudoir session must Not be for me"


This excuse is the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot.

Often times we lose touch of our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of Health/Kids/Work. It happens a lot and its totally normally and okay! A great way to find this side of ourself again is to have a boudoir session done to put that Spark back in us. I. can show you that you still have it inside of you, and it may ignite a spark between you and your spouse as well!!

Another thing to remember is that you don’t have to wear "super sexy outfits" If you feel like this doesn’t show your personality, then there are so many other outfit ideas you can choose from. If you need ideas, I will gladly talk to you about them or you can check out our blog on finding outfits.

"A boudoir shoot is an Investment and I don’t have the money right now"

Yes, a boudoir shoot is an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well!! We do offer a variety of Payment plans. In order to book your shoot, there is a booking retainer, and after that we can setup your payment plan for the remaining amount, so it will be easier for you to book with us. If you have any questions about our Payment Plans, Shoot us an email while setting up your booking.

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